Humans are never satisfied with what they have! You will realise that you have lost the moon while counting the stars.

When married, consider letting go of these attitudes:

1. Possessiveness: Trust and respect boundaries.

2. Competition: Focus on teamwork and mutual support.

3. Criticism: Practice constructive feedback and empathy.

4. Comparison: Appreciate your unique relationship.

5. Selfishness: Cultivate compromise and understanding.

6. Dishonesty: Foster transparency and open communication.

7. Pride: Embrace humility and willingness to apologize.

8. Unforgiveness: Practice forgiveness and letting go.

9. Lack of accountability: Take responsibility for actions.

10. Emotional unavailability: Prioritize emotional intimacy.

11. Disrespect: Treat each other with kindness and respect.

12. Conditional love: Love unconditionally.

13. Unrealistic expectations: Communicate and set realistic goals.

1. Defensiveness: Listen actively and respond thoughtfully.

2. Passive-aggressiveness: Address issues directly.

1. Blame-shifting: Take ownership of mistakes.

1. Emotional manipulation: Communicate openly and honestly.

2. Control: Respect each other's autonomy.

3. Resentment: Address issues before they escalate.

4. Lack of gratitude: Cultivate appreciation.

Replacing these attitudes with positive ones can strengthen your marriage.

Positive attitudes to cultivate:

1. Empathy and understanding
2. Open communication
3. Mutual respect
4. Trust and loyalty
5. Compromise and flexibility
6. Forgiveness and letting go
7. Emotional intelligence
8. Teamwork and cooperation
9. Gratitude and appreciation
10. Unconditional love

Resources:

1. Marriage counseling or therapy
2. Relationship self-help books
3. Online forums and communities
4. Support groups for married couples
5. Personal growth and self-improvement resources