(by Samuel Olagbenjo)

1. Ask About His Day—and Really Listen

Show sincere interest in his daily experiences. Listening tells him he matters.

2. Give Him Undivided Attention

Put away distractions. Eye contact and presence communicate love louder than words.

3. Respect His Opinions

Value his thoughts, even when you disagree. Respect builds emotional safety.

4. Say “I Love You” Often and Sincerely

Express it with intention—it never loses its power.

5. Compliment Him Genuinely

Notice the good in him and speak it out—his looks, efforts, leadership, and more.

6. Cover Him in Prayer

Intercede for him. Declare peace, strength, and favor over his life. Be his spiritual shield.

7. Speak Well of Him to Others

Honor him publicly. Respect behind his back strengthens trust in your love.

8. Cook His Favorite Meal

Thoughtful meals can say, “I see you and I love you” without words.

9. Initiate Intimacy

Let him feel desired. Physical affection and intimacy bond hearts deeply.

10. Be Faithful

Loyalty is foundational. Give him peace of mind through unwavering commitment.

11. Offer Physical Affection

Hugs, kisses, and touches go a long way—every man needs to feel wanted.

12. Surprise Him Occasionally

Plan dates, gifts, or thoughtful acts—spontaneity keeps love fresh.

13. Appreciate More Than You Complain

Gratitude softens the heart. Thank him for the little things and celebrate his growth.

14. Support His Goals

Be his number one fan. Help him believe in himself, especially when self-doubt creeps in.

15. Create a Peaceful Home

Let home be his haven—not a war zone. Peace is one of the most loving gifts.

16. Contribute Financially or Manage Wisely

Support the family budget or add value through thoughtful financial stewardship.

17. Warn with Love, Not Bitterness

When correction is needed, deliver it with respect and love—not judgment.

18. Be His Safe Place

Allow him space to be vulnerable. Be the one who understands, not condemns.

19. Celebrate His Wins

Big or small—cheer him on! Recognition fuels motivation and confidence.

20. Speak His Love Language

Learn how he receives love best—acts of service, words, time, touch, or gifts—and speak it fluently.

💬 Final Thought:

Love isn’t just about words—it’s in the consistency of actions, tone of voice, and little efforts that say “I choose you” every day.