Are you looking for ways to spice up married life?  We’ve put together a list of ways that you can flirt with your husband to rekindle your love. Women tend to flirt with their partners when dating and in a relationship, but surprisingly, they get married and forget about flirting with that man.

Flirting shouldn’t be retired once you’ve got the ring. It brings back the spark, the romance, and the excitement to your marriage and makes both of you feel wanted.

Flirting with your husband might sound like it’s an extra task. However, it is necessary to make sure that the fire in your relationship remains. Think of it as a way to romance your husband.

Flirting with your husband could be fun and romantic, and these tips will show you just how to do it.

1. Wear something he likes. Get some se-xy underwear, such as lingerie or a special bra and panties set. Buy something se-xy that he won’t be able to ignore. Wear clothes that show off your figure, like a tight t-shirt, a nightie, or a playsuit. Grab his attention by wearing a top with an eye-catching neckline or a s-exy dress. Put on his favorite perfume. 

2. Going to bed na-ked is sure to flirt and catch your husband’s attention. If you don’t feel like dressing up to the nines, you don’t have to! Simply take everything off and get into bed—your husband is sure to be excited about it. This is an especially good strategy if you don’t usually sleep naked.

3. Initiate se-x somewhere besides the bedroom. The couch, the kitchen, the shower—your home has plenty of options! Instead of calling your hubby into the bedroom to get him turned on, try getting steamy somewhere else. Men feel desired when their wives initiate se’x.

4. A pillow fight is not reserved for children. And it’s a great way to make a move on your husband. Just toss him a few pillows and start swinging. A great fun-before-bed activity.

5. Praise him in front of others. Boost his ego by bragging about how great a husband he is. When you’re around family and friends, tell them all about your husband’s accomplishments and contributions to your household.

6. Make his favorite meal.
One of the ways to a man’s heart is his stomach. Flirt with your husband by cooking his favorite dish or ordering from his favorite restaurant. This will make him feel loved and cared for. When your husband gushes about a meal, make a note so you can cook it again.

7. Take interest in his hobbies. Be a part of what’s important to him. Men, love it when their wives show a genuine interest in their passions. To make your husband happy, suggest doing his favorite activity together. For example, if he loves watching football, sit down beside him and enjoy it together. If he loves to play video games, see if you can play a game with him.

8. Take your Husband Out On dates. Plan something fun and spontaneous you two have never done before. Take him out, surprise him with this, and when you take him out, all the bills should be on you. Don't let him pay for anything. 

9. Give him a 10-second kiss when he least expects it. This surely will stir him to take the kiss further. Also, Wake him up with a kiss. So, your husband might not tell you that he wants this, but it makes him happy. 

10. Touch him affectionately. Touching each other every day will deepen your connection. It’s also an easy way to show your hubby you love him. Hug him, hold his hand, kiss him, and cuddle him on the couch to be more affectionate. He’ll feel your love for him—literally.
Touch certain parts of his body for some minutes, and that may be all you need to stir him up. Try initiating small instances of physical touch throughout the day to get him thinking about you later on. 

11. Send him a flirty text. A flirty message from you when he’s away will give him a blood rush. It will get your husband thinking about you when you’re apart. He might have just left the house a couple of minutes ago, just text him right away and tell him how much you miss him. He will smile most definitely and be wondering what his wife is up to.

12. Give him a thoughtful gift. Buy him something he’s been wanting or get something that reminds him of you. Giving a gift is a tangible way of flirting. The idea that you went out of your way to give him something special will make him feel loved and appreciated.

13. Show him affection in the public. Public displays of affection (PDA) are also important. Hold his hand when you’re out in public or give him a peck on the cheek. He’ll always know he’s your number one!

14. Spend time with him every day. Quality time together helps you have a strong relationship. By making him a priority, you’ll show him he’s important to you and make him feel loved.

15. Smack his butt – when he’s walking by, smack his butt, and move on. Turn around to see his surprised face, and wink at him playfully.

16. Bring him hot tea in bed. When he least expects this, you just surprise him with his favorite breakfast... 

17. Prepare a candlelight dinner just to celebrate being married to him😊

18. Let him choose your pantie for you sometimes; this will turn him on. 💖😊

19. Dance For Your Hubby – turn on your favorite song on your phone or tablet and dance when he least expects it. Do something exciting that will make you both laugh and tease each other. 💖😊

20. Compliment him; When you notice he’s doing something well, tell him about it. Tell him how awesome he is. Remind him every day that you find him special. Tell him he’s handsome, talented, and a great partner. When you compliment him, be specific about what you love about him. Let him know when he’s looking hot. You could say:
“You’re so handsome.”
“You’re the funniest person I know.”
“I love your laugh.”
“You look so sexy today.”
“I love how intelligent you are.”
This will boost his ego and make him want you more. Say sweet things to him. Call him sweet names. 😊💖

21. Tell him you love him every day. Remind him often that you’re just as in love now as you were the day you first said you love him.

22. Look very attractive when you are going out with him. The fact that people admire you will make them value you more. 

23. Playful with him when you are out with him. You make him feel alive when he sees you in such a mood.

24. Look hot for him even if you are indoors and alone with him. Care about your appearance when you are home with him. Men are moved a lot by what they see. 💖😊

25. Surprise him with something that would thrill him; that’s the best way to flirt with him. 

26. Laugh at his cheesy jokes. Laughing with your husband is a great way to affirm him. That includes the joke you’ve heard a million times.

27. Show appreciation for what he does. Tell him his contributions to your family are valuable. Look for sweet gestures to appreciate some things he has done for you.

28 Warm up to him when you’re both together; cuddle, lie on his lap and maintain physical contact. 

29. Take a shower with him too. This is romantic and leaves him with positive ‘naughty’ thoughts. 😊💖

30. After a tiring day at work, kiss him. Give him a hug, a good meal, and a good massage. This is one of the best treats you can give him. 😊💖

31. After the children start coming, still give him attention and make him feel wanted. 😊💖

Flirting with your husband shouldn’t stop on the day of your wedding, or a few years after marriage. It should be continuous and last your lifetime.

When you stop flirting with him, you take away certain things from the marriage.