By

Nya Ndo

1. He listens to you: He actively listens to your thoughts, feelings, and concerns, and shows that he values your opinions.

2. He prioritizes your needs: He puts your needs and wants above his own, and shows willingness to make sacrifices for your benefit.

3. He is patient and understanding: He is patient and understanding when you're going through difficult times, and offers support and encouragement.

4. He respects you: He respects your limits and personal space, and never tries to control or manipulate you.

5. He shows appreciation and gratitude: He regularly expresses gratitude for having you in his life, and shows appreciation for the things you do for him.

6. He supports your goals and dreams: He supports and encourages your goals, dreams, and aspirations, and helps you work towards achieving them.

7. He is loyal and committed: He is committed to the relationship and shows loyalty through his actions, not just his words.

8. He communicates openly and honestly: He communicates openly and honestly with you, sharing his thoughts, feelings, and desires in a respectful and empathetic manner.

9. He shows interest in your life: He takes a genuine interest in your life, including your interests, hobbies, and passions.

10. He makes you feel safe and secure: He makes you feel safe and secure in the relationship, and you trust him to be there for you through life's ups and downs.

A true gentleman values more than just your physical appearance. If every compliment from him focuses on a different body part, it's a major red flag.

A grown woman who cares about her future wants a man who appreciates her personality, kindness, intelligence, and character.

A man who truly loves you should see beyond your physical beauty.

Marriage is a lifelong journey, and if his love is solely based on your appearance, reconsider.

Physical attractiveness can fade, and life's unexpected events like accident, age and other unexpected happenings can alter our bodies. If your worth is tied solely to your physical beauty, then you have a problem.