‎By Bisi Adewale
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‎1. Captive Wife
‎This woman cages her husband with manipulation and emotional control. She monitors his movement, polices his phone, and treats him like a suspect. The man feels choked instead of loved.
‎Solution: She must learn to trust, give freedom, and treat him as a partner, not a prisoner. Love grows in liberty, not bondage.
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‎2. Baby Wife
‎She is childish, lazy, throws tantrums, keeps malice, and expects to be pampered like a little girl. Marriage becomes draining as the man handles her like a child instead of a helper.
‎Solution: She must mature emotionally, take responsibility, and grow into a supportive, stable wife.
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‎3. Daddy’s Girl Wife
‎She depends on her parents for every decision, compares her husband with her father, and allows her family to dictate her marriage. This causes disrespect and conflict.
‎Solution: She must “leave and cleave,” respect her husband, and set boundaries with her family.
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‎4. Public Angel, Home Devil Wife
‎She is respectful and charming outside but rude and cold at home. She pleases outsiders and neglects her husband and home.
‎Solution: She must prioritize her marriage and show the same kindness to her husband as she shows to outsiders.
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‎5. Social Media Wife
‎Always online, scrolling, chatting, and posting instead of spending time with her husband. She entertains the world while ignoring her own home.
‎Solution: She must drop her phone, give attention, and be emotionally present in the marriage.
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‎6. Toxic Wife
‎She fills the home with nagging, insults, mood swings, and negative words. The man’s peace disappears as her mouth becomes a weapon of destruction.
‎Solution: She must learn gentleness, self-control, and fill the home with words of encouragement and peace.
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‎7. Helicopter Wife
‎She controls everything — how he dresses, what he eats, who he talks to. She calls it love, but it is manipulation. The husband feels dominated.
‎Solution: She must respect her husband’s space and opinions, allowing him to lead without interference.
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‎8. Violent Wife
‎She uses shouting, slapping, throwing objects, or emotional blackmail to win arguments. The husband lives in fear and shame.
‎Solution: She must stop all abuse, seek healing, and embrace patience and understanding.
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‎9. Widower’s Wife
‎Though the man is married, he feels alone. She offers no help, no support, no love, no care. He handles life like a widower.
‎Solution: She must become a true helper, be available, caring, and actively support her husband.
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‎10. Rapist Wife
‎She forces sex through threat, nagging, or emotional pressure, not caring about the man’s emotional or physical state.
‎Solution: She must understand that intimacy must be mutual, respectful, and loving, not demanded forcefully.
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‎11. Almighty Wife
‎Always right, never wrong. She does not apologize. Her pride kills communication and silences her husband.
‎Solution: She must embrace humility, apologize when wrong, and listen more.
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‎12. Stone-Face Wife
‎She never smiles or plays. Her face is always hard. The home lacks warmth. The husband lives with a statue, not a friend.
‎Solution: She must learn to smile, create joy, and bring laughter into the home.
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‎13. Street-Life Wife
‎Always out, parties, events, outings — ignoring her home. The family is neglected while she enjoys social life.
‎Solution: She must abandon worldly distractions and focus on building a peaceful, homely environment.
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‎14. Seductive Wife
‎Addicted to seduction, flirting with men physically or online. She enjoys attention from men. Her husband feels betrayed.
‎Solution: She must cultivate self-control, stay faithful, and respect her marriage vows.
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‎15. Dirty Wife
‎She refuses to keep herself or the house clean. Bad hygiene, dirty kitchen, unkempt body and hair.
‎Solution: She must embrace cleanliness, personal hygiene, and create a neat home.
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‎16. Traditional Wife
‎She holds on to cultural practices that disregard love, e.g., “The man must do everything,” “My father never...” She uses culture to justify stubbornness.
‎Solution: She must embrace godly submission, love, and teamwork, not oppressive tradition.
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‎17. Absent Wife
‎Physically or emotionally absent. She may even live in the same house but never be emotionally available. The man carries life alone.
‎Solution: She must be present, attentive, and emotionally supportive.
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‎18. Workaholic Wife
‎Married to her job or business more than her family. She provides money but neglects her husband and children emotionally.
‎Solution: She must balance work with family, create time, and prioritize her marriage.
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‎19. Secretive Wife
‎Hides money, plans, relationships, and phone passwords. Her secrecy destroys trust.
‎Solution: She must be open, transparent, and honest to build trust.
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‎20. Jealous Wife
‎Suspicious and accusative. Every female friend becomes a threat. She keeps interrogating and monitoring.
‎Solution: She must overcome insecurity, trust her husband, and stop false accusations.
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‎21. Proud Wife
‎She refuses correction, believes she is better than her husband, and speaks proudly. Pride blocks peace.
‎Solution: She must humble herself, respect her husband’s input, and learn.
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‎22. Unromantic Wife
‎She never shows affection, hates touch, never initiates intimacy, and makes sex look like punishment. The man is emotionally starved.
‎Solution: She must cultivate romance, express love, and be affectionate.
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‎23. Stingy Wife
‎She has money but will not support her husband. She keeps all resources to herself and watches him struggle.
‎Solution: She must practice generosity, share, and support her husband.
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‎24. Flirtatious Wife
‎She entertains male attention, chats endlessly with other men, dresses to attract men. Her husband feels disrespected.
‎Solution: She must set boundaries, stop emotional affairs, and honor her husband.
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‎25. Slave-Driver Wife
‎She turns her husband into her errand boy or house-boy, gives endless commands, and treats him like a servant.
‎Solution: She must respect her husband, appreciate him, and treat him as a partner, not a slave.
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‎26. Irresponsible Wife
‎She leaves the upkeep and training of children to her husband. She wastes money, ignores home duties, and avoids responsibility.
‎Solution: She must be responsible, faithful at home, and manage resources wisely.
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‎27. Bossy Wife
‎Commands everything and everyone. She gives orders and expects immediate obedience. The home is filled with tension.
‎Solution: She must learn servant leadership, cooperation, and dialogue.
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‎28. Addicted Wife
‎Hooked on alcohol, drugs, gambling, betting, or social media. This addiction drains money and destroys trust.
‎Solution: She must seek help, break addictions, and regain discipline.
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‎29. Unfaithful Wife
‎Engages in extramarital affairs, emotional or physical. Her infidelity brings shame and pain and breaks the home.
‎Solution: She must repent, cut off all affairs, and rebuild faithfulness.
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‎30. Prayerless Wife
‎She neglects prayer, lacks spiritual covering for her home, and becomes spiritually weak.
‎Solution: She must rise in prayer, cover her home spiritually, and build a godly altar.
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