1. Some women crave for sex during pregnancy. Gentlemen, if your wife is one of them, be prepared to match her high libido

2. Some women, because of the body changes, stretchmarks and ballooning of the body don't feel very sexy. She needs you to remind her that you still find her attractive 

3. Some men find pregnant women really sexy. Gentleman, don't be insecure about the glances and special treatment your pregnant woman gets 

4. Pregnant women, just because you can have unprotected sex and not conceive doesn't mean you cheat on your man while carrying his child

5. Some women face child birth trauma. Gentleman, before you demand sex after she gives birth, find out about the health of her mind 

6. After giving birth, some women take time to open up to penetration. Don't push her 

7. Ladies, you might not be up for penetration after child birth but there are other ways to please your husband sexually. Explore 

8. Be psychologically prepared for your new born to affect your sex life. Gentlemen, this not an excuse to cheat

9. After a dry spell of no penetrative sex and then you two find your rythmn, be intentional about family planning, lest you two conceive again if you are not ready for another 

10. After pregnancy, alot of women are self conscious about their vaginas, whether it smells, whether it is not as tight as it used to be, whether it still looks as yummy, this is evident especially when the husband goes down on her for some licking. Make her feel comfortable with her vagina, praise her sweet flower, you are the only man who gets to see it 

11. Gentlemen, the more you play your role in attending to your new born child, the more your wife will go out of her way to satisfy you sexually. But a wife who feels she is raising the child alone struggles with being interested in sex

12. Remember that intimacy is more than sexual. You two may not have as much sex due to pregnancy but you can still cultivate intimacy through cuddling, skin contact, touching, praying and having heart to heart conversations 

13. If your sexlife dwindles due to pregnancy, remember it is just for a season. Soon, your new born will grow past the delicate phase and you two will find your balance. Frequent hot sex will return if you two handle this well.