Starting a new relationship can be exciting and full of promise. However, it’s important to pay attention to certain aspects of the relationship in the first 100 days to ensure its long-term success. Here are 30 things to watch for during this crucial period:

1. Trust

Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship. Pay attention to whether you trust your partner and if they trust you in return.

2. Mutual Feelings
It’s important to gauge whether you and your partner have similar levels of affection and interest in each other. A balanced dynamic is crucial for a healthy relationship.

3. Respect
Respect is a key component of any successful relationship. Observe if your partner shows respect towards you and your boundaries.

4. Satisfaction

Assess whether you feel satisfied in the relationship. Are your emotional and physical needs being met?

5. Appreciation
Healthy relationships thrive on appreciation. Take note of whether you and your partner show gratitude and acknowledge each other’s efforts.

6. Abuse or Manipulation
Be vigilant for any signs of abuse or manipulation in the relationship. These behaviors are red flags and should not be ignored.

7. Resentment
Pay attention to whether your partner harbors resentment towards you or if you find yourself holding onto resentment. Resentment can poison a relationship if left unaddressed.

8. Shared Interests

Having shared interests and activities can strengthen a relationship. Evaluate whether you and your partner have common hobbies or passions.

9. Respect for Differences
Respecting each other’s differences and values is crucial for a healthy relationship. Observe if you and your partner embrace and appreciate each other’s unique qualities.

10. Healthy Communication
Communication is the lifeblood of any relationship. Assess whether you and your partner have open, honest, and respectful communication.

11. Balance in Life

Consider whether the relationship is negatively affecting other areas of your life. It’s important to maintain a healthy balance between your relationship and other commitments.

12. Authenticity
Reflect on whether you feel like your true self in the relationship. It’s important to be with someone who allows you to be authentic and genuine.

13. Reciprocity
Reciprocity is essential for a healthy relationship. Pay attention to whether there is a fair give-and-take dynamic between you and your partner.

14. Emotional Stability
Take note of whether you find yourself frequently upset or emotionally unstable in the relationship. A healthy relationship should bring you joy and emotional stability.

15. Patience
Patience is a virtue in any relationship. Observe whether you and your partner are patient with each other’s flaws and shortcomings.

16. Self-Worth
Reflect on whether you feel like something is wrong with you or if your self-esteem has taken a hit since starting the relationship. A healthy relationship should uplift and empower you.

17. Interactions
Consider whether your interactions with your partner are mostly positive or negative. Healthy relationships should have a predominantly positive tone.

18. Mental Health
Assess whether your mental health has declined since starting the relationship. It’s important to be with someone who supports your emotional well-being.

19. Hopefulness
Reflect on whether you feel hopeful about life and the future while in the relationship. A healthy relationship should inspire optimism and growth.

20. Affection
Physical and emotional affection is an important aspect of a relationship. Evaluate whether there is enough affection between you and your partner.

21. Control
Watch out for any signs of control or possessiveness in the relationship. Both partners should feel free and respected.

22. Honesty
Honesty and openness are essential for a strong foundation. Assess whether you and your partner are open and honest with each other.

23. Maturity
Consider whether your partner acts maturely in the relationship. Emotional maturity is crucial for navigating challenges and conflicts.

24. Anxiety and Insecurity
Reflect on whether you feel anxious or insecure about the relationship. A healthy relationship should provide a sense of security and stability.

25. Flexibility and Compromise
Both partners should be willing to be flexible and compromise. Evaluate whether you and your partner are open to finding middle ground.

26. Personal Growth
Consider whether you have room to grow both individually and as a couple. A healthy relationship should foster personal development.

27. Past Relationships
Reflect on whether you feel uncomfortable about your partner’s past relationships. Trust and open communication are important in addressing any concerns.

28. Conflict Resolution
Observe how conflicts are resolved in the relationship. Healthy relationships involve respectful and constructive conflict resolution.

29. Unresolved Past Relationships
Consider whether your partner has unresolved issues from past relationships. It’s important to support each other in healing and moving forward.

30. Genuine Interest and Attraction
Assess whether you and your partner are genuinely interested in and attracted to each other. Mutual attraction and interest are crucial for a fulfilling relationship.