A man’s thoughts after s3x can tell you a lot about what you mean to him. 

It’s not always about the act, it’s about the intentions behind it.

 And here’s what runs through his head;

1. “Do I actually like her or was this just lust?”
For many men, s3x is the test. Some realize it was only physical attraction. Others realize they actually want more.

2. “Can I respect her after this?”
A man knows the difference between a woman he’ll take seriously and a woman he’ll just pass time with. Respect doesn’t come from the act itself, it comes from how you carry yourself before and after.

3. “Will she start expecting more from me now?”
Some men worry that s3x means expectations, commitment, effort, consistency. If he’s not serious about you, this thought alone will make him pull back.

4. “Do I feel at peace with her?”
A man knows when a woman’s energy is healing and when it’s draining. If he feels calm and safe with you after the act, you’ve touched him deeper than the body.

5. “Do I see her in my future?”
This is the most important thought. After the moment fades, does he see you as someone to build with or someone he’ll forget by morning? 
His actions afterward will tell you everything.

Darling, never confuse s3x for commitment. What he does when you say no sex until marriage matters the most.