1. Kissing and your spouse kisses you back, and kisses you right

2. Unveiling your spouse's nakedness and knowing you are the only who sees it 

3. Being butt naked infront of your spouse and feeling accepted and wanted

4. Your spouse kissing, licking, touching and rubbing your favourite spots on your body as he/she knows you well

5. Watching your spouse melt, breathe heavily and even moan as he/she surrenders to your pleasure giving

6. Watching your husband's erect penis and pre-cum and knowing you still have the power to turn him on

7. Witnessing your wife's wetness and knowing she desires you as much as you desire her

8. The feeling of the hardness going in. Indescribable feeling. She closes her eyes in sweetness, he feels sensations that make him roar

9. You two love making in sync. You have the same rhythm; knowing when to be fast or slow, hard or gentle 

10. Your eyes meeting in that moment of shared experience where the world is not invited

11. Your spouse participating in the love making and knowing this is mutual

12. Your spouse wanting to do it your preferred position and you wanting to do your spouse preferred position

13. Witnessing your spouse becoming desperate for a climax, calling for it, yearning for it

14. Giving your spouse an intense orgasm and knowing you have that power

15. Cuddling, kissing and speaking love thereafter as you both fall asleep, spend sometime talking or wake up out of bed glowing and happy; knowing that your spouse not only values the sex, but values you for more than the sex

© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde