In today’s world, too many beautiful homes are being shattered by avoidable sexual mistakes. Stories of infidelity, betrayal, and broken trust have become all too common — often because men ignore basic boundaries and moral discipline in marriage.

 

The following 60 rules serve as a guide for married men who desire to protect their marriages, honor their wives, and preserve their personal integrity:

🔒 BOUNDARIES WITH WOMEN

1. Don’t maintain close relationships with any woman who’s not your wife.

2. Emotional attachments to other women are dangerous — avoid them.

3. Stop celebrating women (besides your wife, mother, or daughter) on social media.

4. Women who offer themselves easily will just as easily betray you.

5. Never exploit women under your authority — it’s a betrayal of trust.

6. Don’t give money to women without your wife’s knowledge and approval.

7. Avoid secluded meetings with women.

8. Resist the urge to lust after another woman — your wife is enough.

9. Don’t accept regular food gifts from women. It’s more than just food.

10. Wear your wedding ring always. It signals you’re taken.

⚠️ AVOIDING TEMPTATION

11. Call out indecent dressing and don’t allow it around you.

12. If a woman comes on to you, rebuke her immediately.

13. Don’t start sexual or flirtatious conversations with women.

14. Hide nothing from your wife — total openness is key.

15. Flaunt your wife. She should be your pride.

16. Publicly celebrate your wife — especially on special occasions.

17. Be clear that you’re married — always.

18. Don’t casually say “I love you” to women. It sends the wrong message.

19. Talk about your wife often — it discourages flirty advances.

20. Never complain about your wife to another woman.

💬 COMMUNICATION & TRANSPARENCY

21. If your marriage is struggling, see a professional counsellor, not a female friend.

22. Cut off all exes and former lovers — completely.

23. Reaffirm your love to your wife — regularly and publicly.

24. If a woman is getting too close, tell your wife immediately.

25. Be polite but firm with women — kindness must have limits.

🧠 SELF-AWARENESS

26. Eight seconds of pleasure can ruin a lifetime — think long-term.

27. Avoid night parties; they breed temptation.

28. Avoid alcohol; it clouds judgement and weakens self-control.

29. STDs are real — stay faithful and avoid regret.

30. Don’t rely on condoms; practice character.

💍 HONOR YOUR VOWS

31. Remember your wedding vows and keep them.

32. Nightclubs are not for faithful husbands.

33. Avoid flirty jokes with women.

34. Avoid casual hugs — keep physical boundaries.

35. Don’t touch women unnecessarily.

36. Don’t dine privately with another woman — shared meals build bonds.

37. Avoid long car rides alone with women — proximity breeds feelings.

38. Don’t chat secretly or flirt online.

39. No secret meetings with women your wife doesn’t know about.

40. Stay far from pornography — it wrecks your mind and your marriage.

 

📱 TECHNOLOGY & TRANSPARENCY

41. Don’t hide your phone from your wife. Give her full access.

42. If you must fantasize — make it about your wife.

43. Her body is enough — stop comparing.

44. Appreciate her curves, not another woman’s.

45. Have an accountability partner — someone to check you.

46. Be careful with your wife’s friends — boundaries are essential.

47. Housemaids are off-limits. Full stop.

48. Don’t store women’s numbers that your wife doesn’t know.

49. Don’t counsel women on sexual or marital issues. Refer them elsewhere.

50. If you’re horny, go home — your wife is waiting.

❤️ DEEPENING YOUR MARRIAGE

51. Cuddle your wife. Play with her. Be affectionate.

52. Practice SDA — Secret Display of Affection.

53. Practice FDA — Family Display of Affection in front of kids.

54. Practice PDA — Public Display of Affection — don’t hide her.

55. Date your wife. Regularly.

56. Don’t lose your emotional connection with her.

57. Be more than a provider — be her lover.

 

🧾 COUNT THE COST

58. Think before cheating: diseases, shame, divorce, scandal, regret.

59. No secretary or colleague is better than your wife. Keep your distance.

60. If sex is lacking, invest in education and conversation — help her grow, don’t replace her.

🔚 IN CONCLUSION:

 

Marriage is not just about staying married — it’s about staying faithful.

These 60 principles are not rules of restriction; they are guardrails that protect your joy, reputation, marriage, and soul.

 

Be the kind of man your wife can trust with her heart, your children can admire, and your God can commend.

 

🙏🏽 Be faithful. Be wise. Be intentional.