Sex, Poverty Trap For Men

Men are going broke chasing pleasure instead of purpose.
Forget jazz. Forget recession.
If you're broke, weak, and constantly tired, check your pants. Your real enemy might be between your legs.
This is not a spiritual attack.
It’s just a lust problem.
BRUTAL TRUTH...
1. YOU’RE SPENDING LIKE A CEO ON WOMEN WHO SEE YOU AS A CUSTOMER
Hair money.
Transport fare.
Food money.
Data money.
"Small something" money.
You don’t even invest this much in your own business!
Every time she moans, you send alert.
Oga, you’re not a boyfriend—you’re a transaction.
2. YOU CAN’T BUILD ANYTHING BECAUSE YOU’RE ALWAYS THINKING WITH YOUR BODY
You want to start a business, but one “I miss you” text from Sandra and you abandon the plan.
You open your notes app to write ideas...
Next thing, you’re on WhatsApp asking “Are you home alone?”
Your energy is scattered. Your brain is fogged.
No man builds legacy in the middle of sexual addiction.
3. YOU CAN’T SAVE MONEY BECAUSE SEX IS YOUR SECOND RENT
You're paying for hotels, wine, gifts, shawarma, Uber...
You’re dating like you’re Dangote, but your account balance is crying for help.
You can't even save 10k monthly, but you've spent 70k this week on one babe that won't marry you.
Sex is cheap. You’re the one making it expensive.
4. EVERY TIME YOU EJACULATE, YOU’RE LOSING POWER
Forget whatever they told you to the contrary. The truth is that every release drains you.
Energy. Focus. Ambition. Masculine fire.
That’s why you’re always tired after “just one round.”
Because it’s not just physical release. You’re pouring out your drive.
You can't sleep with three different women a week and expect to be Elon Musk. Be serious.
5. YOU’RE INVESTING TIME IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT DRAIN, NOT BUILD
You chat 24/7. You FaceTime for hours. You’re always checking in.
But she’s not even adding value to your life.
She’s not helping you grow. She’s not building you up.
She’s just sexy and available—and that’s your weakness.
6. SEX MAKES YOU COMFORTABLE IN A BROKE LIFE
You're broke but not hungry—why? Because sex is your escape.
Instead of fixing your finances, you’re fixing condom sizes.
Instead of studying high-income skills, you're studying her body language.
Oga, how will you win in life when you’re satisfied with “temporary pleasure”?
7. YOU’RE LOSING RESPECT—EVEN FROM HER
When she sees you prioritizing her body over your goals, she knows you're weak.
Women don’t love slaves—they respect kings.
And kings don’t bow down to lust.
They control it.
BOTTOM LINE:
Sex is not the problem—lack of discipline is.
The real poverty trap isn’t village people…
It’s how often you abandon your future for five minutes of pleasure.
Brother, if you want to win:
Retain your energy
Respect your mission
Let your purpose lead, not your manhood.
Sex won’t make you rich. Focus will.
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