Pastor Tola Odutola don cause serious talk for social media after e call out wetin e describe as “too much” expectations wey some young ladies get for relationship nowadays.

 

As e dey talk for one sermon, Odutola show concern say plenty young men dey suffer because the kind life wey some ladies want, no match wetin dem fit afford. “I dey pity plenty young men today,” na wetin e talk.

 

According to am, things like luxury vacation and business class flight don become normal request, but na things wey “only sugar daddies fit afford,” no be average young guys wey still dey hustle to make am.

 

The pastor still ask where all these expectations dey come from, as e point out say many of the people wey dey demand this kind soft life no grow up with am. “Who introduce you to business class?” na question wey e keep asking, meaning say na exposure dey make people want wetin pass dem level.

 

Odutola warn say this kind mindset fit cause serious wahala for relationship, especially marriage. E explain say if person enter marriage with this kind high expectation, disappointment go full ground when real life no match the fantasy.

 

“We gats dey careful, because once you carry this thing enter marriage, expectation failure go show,” na so e take talk.

 

In the end, the cleric advise young people make dem calm down and reason well, make dem no put too much financial pressure for relationship, because unmet expectations na one big reason wey dey cause breakup nowadays.