Dear lady, when it’s time to choose a life partner, let more than looks, money, or sweet words guide your heart. Marry a man who has sense — real emotional maturity, empathy, and respect. Here’s what that looks like:

🔟 Signs You’re Marrying a Man with Sense:
    1.    He knows bride price is not a purchase.
Paying your bride price doesn’t mean he’s bought you. He honors your dignity and individuality.
    2.    He doesn’t think marrying you is a favour.
He knows you’re a gift, not a burden or charity case.
    3.    He respects your natural body and emotions.
He understands mood swings and menstrual cramps are part of womanhood, not something to use against you.
    4.    He respects your boundaries.
He knows that you can say no to sex and that love involves mutual care, not pressure.
    5.    He values your post-childbirth body.
He sees stretch marks, sagging breasts, or a bigger tummy as marks of motherhood — not flaws. And if you choose to get back in shape, he supports you, not shames you.
    6.    He shares the weight of life.
If you’re too tired to cook, he doesn’t throw a tantrum — he orders food or cooks because partnership means shared effort.
    7.    He gives you space to speak and feel.
You have the right to express your frustrations, share opinions, agree, or disagree — and he listens with respect.
    8.    He knows the power of “I’m sorry.”
He doesn’t hide behind pride or patriarchy. When he’s wrong, he admits it. He apologizes — sincerely.
    9.    He never raises a hand against you.
He understands that hitting a woman is never acceptable. Violence has no place in love.
    10.    He loves your soul, not just your body.
He cherishes deep conversations, respects your mind, and enjoys your company without always turning it into something physical.

Marry a man who makes you feel safe, seen, and supported — not silenced or controlled.
Marry a man with emotional intelligence, not just a bank account.