How Marriage Changes You
© Akello Oliech & Dayan Masinde
1. Marriage Makes You Selfless
→ You begin living for more than just yourself—your spouse, your children, your family.
2. Marriage Makes You Financially Responsible
→ You look for ways to provide and build a future; you start thinking long-term.
3. Marriage Changes Your Fashion
→ You dress to reflect your values publicly and to please your partner privately.
4. Marriage Makes You More Considerate
→ Decisions are no longer one-sided. You start saying “we” more than “I”.
5. Marriage Makes You Naked (Emotionally & Personally)
→ You are fully seen—flaws and all. This leads to vulnerability and real growth.
6. Marriage Makes You Settle (in a Good Way)
→ You focus your energy on one person, building something lasting and intentional.
7. Marriage Teaches You to Express Yourself
→ You learn that communication is a skill, not a luxury. Silence breaks, words build.
8. Marriage Makes You Grow Faster
→ A strong partner will challenge, sharpen, and stretch you. Iron sharpens iron.
9. Marriage Brings You Rest
→ Home becomes a safe haven. You belong. You breathe easier.
10. Marriage Makes You Purpose-Driven
→ You both want to build a legacy that outlives you—a marriage of impact.
11. Marriage Makes You Glow
→ Being loved well brings out the best in you—it shows on the outside too.
12. Marriage Helps You Make Better Decisions
→ You gain a sounding board—someone who wants the best for you.
13. Marriage Is Good for Emotional Health
→ You’re no longer facing life alone. That companionship reduces stress and loneliness.
14. Marriage Adds Meaning to Sex
→ Intimacy becomes more than pleasure—it becomes a celebration of love and trust.
15. Marriage Makes You a Better Person
→ You’re lovingly corrected and supported by someone invested in your growth.
16. Marriage Gives You Reason to Fight Life’s Storms
→ When storms come, you’re not alone. You’re a team. You fight for each other.


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