1. Lack of Financial Resources
When there isn’t enough money to meet basic family needs, it creates strain. Couples may argue more often, and the stress of scarcity can weaken intimacy and trust.

2. Financial Control by One Partner
Sometimes the issue isn’t lack of money, but the way finances are controlled. In many homes, one partner (often the breadwinner) keeps full control of the family’s finances, while the other is given little or no access. This leaves the other spouse feeling powerless and undervalued, even though they may also be contributing in non-financial but equally important ways.

For instance, a woman may be married to a wealthy man but is given little money for her needs. Despite living in wealth, she feels financially poor and dependent.

In some cases, both partners earn money, yet the man insists the woman should hand over all her earnings to him “because he is the head of the home.” This often breeds resentment.

Conversely, there are cases where the woman earns more. While she may not mind sharing, her husband may feel threatened, inadequate, or resentful because of her financial advantage.

3. Ego and Power Struggles Around Money
Beyond the actual income, money often becomes tied to ego, control, and self-worth. Whoever controls the money may unconsciously control decision-making in the marriage.

The Way Forward
For peace to reign, couples need to realize that marriage thrives on partnership, not power struggles. Both partners should have fair and transparent access to financial resources. Instead of one party dictating, finances should be discussed openly, budgeted jointly, and managed in a way that gives each partner dignity, security, and a sense of contribution.