Before entering a relationship, dear single lady, don’t be swept away by surface-level attractions. Many women have made avoidable mistakes by choosing partners for the wrong reasons. Be wise, be discerning, and remember that love built on shallow foundations doesn’t last.

❌ Never go into a relationship just because:
    1.    He is handsome.
    2.    He owns a car.
    3.    He takes you out to fancy places.
    4.    He’s romantic and charming.
    5.    He bought you the latest iPhone.
    6.    He writes you love letters or poems.
    7.    He calls and texts all the time.
    8.    He is popular or has social status.
    9.    He went to a top school.
    10.    He speaks polished English.

These things might be nice, but they are not enough to build a lasting, meaningful relationship. A man can be rich and still not respect you. He can be good-looking and yet make you feel invisible. Looks, money, and charm fade — true character endures.

✅ Instead, choose a man for the right reasons:
    1.    He genuinely fears God.
    2.    He respects your voice and decisions.
    3.    He supports your dreams and helps you grow.
    4.    He wants the best for you — not just for himself.
    5.    He sees you as a partner, friend, and confidant.
    6.    Your happiness is his priority.
    7.    He cares deeply about your emotions.
    8.    He is transparent and hides nothing from you.
    9.    He treats you like the queen you are.
    10.    He lovingly corrects you when you’re wrong.
    11.    He protects your weaknesses instead of using them against you.
    12.    Even in conflict, he still cares about your feelings.

🙏 A Prayer for Every Single Woman Reading This:

May you marry once, and may you marry right.
May God bless you with a man who is God-fearing, loving, respectful, and true.
You will not make a mistake in choosing your life partner.
Your love story will be beautiful, because it will be built on truth, strength, and purpose.