Nigerian sex coach, Ajie Fortune Reuben, has elaborated on her choice to be involved with married men rather than single ones.
She explained it was a deliberate decision to safeguard herself from vulnerability, having previously experienced love and the accompanying pitfalls.
 
The self-aware coach acknowledged her initial desire to be a married woman but explained how circumstances led her down a different path.

Reflecting on her experiences on the Honest Bunch Podcast, she expressed contentment with how they shaped her current mindset.

She shared, “Life experiences shape our decisions, and being in this role is a deliberate reality check to protect myself from vulnerability. I’ve yearned to be the woman at home, but when that didn’t materialize, I chose to focus on my career, happiness, and lifestyle.

“I’m content and not out to disrupt anyone’s home; I simply navigate my feelings carefully, knowing this phase is temporary. I’ve learned to manage disappointment and when the time comes, I’ll embrace a different role.”

Ajie Reuben’s candid remarks reflect her journey towards self-understanding and resilience in matters of the heart.

Previously, she asserted that married men often offer more significant contributions than unmarried ones.

She went as far as suggesting that even someone as prominent as Davido should be able to discreetly pursue her, ensuring she gets her fair share.