When men want $€x, they can say and do the right things; but how he feels about her is revealed after the $€x. Many women get great $€x yet feel unloved by the man they are building a future with, many wives feel used by their husbands. Some men start the $€x well, get the high and conclude it poorly; they doze off as if their objective has been met and have no need for her anymore, making her feel it's always about him. Women want more than the $€xual high, to them it is an act of intimacy, they long for affection. Man, what she needs after the cl!max is...

1. To be held to sleep. Cuddl£ as you talk loving words to each other 

2. To be gently k!ssed on the lips, forehead and closed eye lids. This shows even after the l0ve making, you still yearn for her

3. To be told "I love you". This confirms to her the l0ve making was done out of love. She is the only one you desire

4. To be touched on her belly, especially if you two are trying to make a baby

5. To be prayed for. This shows that what you two have is sacred. You are proud of your love before God

6. To be told she is beautiful. Praise her physical and inner beauty, destroy any  negative self-conscious thought she has

7. To be looked at with focus. Look deep into her eyes, study her; a woman glows when she feels wanted before, during and after the s£x. Search her soul through her eyes

8. To be told how amazing she was. Women often feel alot of pressure to be $exy and to be great in b€d.Tell her how awesome she was, allay her fears and arrest her questioning whether she is good enough in matters $ex. The more you praise her, the more she will do for you

9. Play with her fingers and the wedding ring. Fingers speak love, touch her fingers, run your finger on the wedding ring you gave her. Tell your wife you are only hers

10. Apologize or forgive, if it was make up $€x. Don't let the issue go unresolved and swept under the carpet just because you had great $ex.Too many couples are in problems but are hiding behind $€x. Let the make up $ex be the start of a new chapter

11. Str0ke her skin. Many men concentrate only on the b00bs and what is between the legs. But a woman's skin all over her body longs for a love sensation. Str0ke her gently on her arms, back, neck, hips; escort your touch with k!sses planted on her skin

12. Cover her with the blanket. Protect her even in bed. Pull the blanket over her and tuck her in. Make her feel protected and cared for by her king who minutes ago made her body tremble

13. A shower together, if the s£x was morning glory or a qu!ckie before you leave. Jump into the shower together, laugh, wash each other. This warms her.